My grades are completed. I’ll deliver them to the registrar’s office this morning. Hooray! Now I can put away my school bookbag until after the holidays. The next semester begins January 23, and although I’m enjoying the freedom of more time to myself, in a month I’ll be eager to return to campus to meet the new groups of students I’ll be teaching. Some I will have taught before, and I will enjoy meeting with them weekly to hear all about their student teaching experiences. Others I will meet for the first time, some in a course I’ve taught for six years, others in a course that will be new for me. I think I’m addicted to teaching. Or maybe it’s just that I very much enjoy being around young adults. They energize me! The ones I teach are planning to become teachers. What profession could be more important? There is NONE, and by the end of the semester I’ll have convinced my students of that – or they may, perhaps, decide they should look for something else to pursue. It’s one time around, so one should spend as much time doing what one enjoys. Teaching is hard work. It’s a never-ending learning experience! It’s NEVER boring! Just sitting here writing this makes my anticipation of meeting new students in one month and two days even greater! Happy Holidays to all!
Gathered ’round our table
Presents bought…most are wrapped.
Cards are sent.
Decorations completed.
House is partially cleaned
Not exactly through the woods yet in these preps because–
now it is time to concentrate on Christmas dinner.
Gathered around our table(s) on Christmas day will be approximately 30 family and extended family. I’m still counting noses. It brings to mind those that will not be here this year:
My aunt who suffered a stroke two weeks ago and is in a rehab center. She has been one of our less talkative guests over the last few years, but our littler grandson always found her a good listener for the tales he had to tell on Christmas.
My brother-in-law, who passed away last spring. Always the consumate entertainer, he had his bag of tricks to show the kids and a way of telling Irish jokes that even if they were not funny, you laughed long and hard.
My cousin’s father-in-law who passed away just this week. He used to chase the little ones around the house. In his later years he was the only one allowed in my little kitchen other than me, simply because he seemed to feel that I needed him there to tell me what to do. He will be remembered for his unusual gifts. He bought by the case and gave by the case…a case of shampoo, or tennis balls, or comemorative plates, or sleep socks, or…name it.
Our guests will range in age from 4 to 90. There will be grandchildren, cousins, nieces, and nephews along with their families, house guests, and boyfriends. And we will tip a glass to the memories of those who have enriched our holidays past.
May your day be merry and bright, and for the sake of the travelers, not too white.
Ellen
Gratitude
The tree is trimmed. The presents are bought, although I do still have to make a few. The streets are alive with light; a warm carnival embrace. And I am happy to be alive. And I am filled with love and gratitude to all my dear friends for the love they show me. My heart swells to bursting with happiness and life.
There truly is something magical about this season. Some special sparkle in the air that makes us a bit more open, a bit more caring. Perhaps it’s the eggnog, the Southern Comfort, the sugar high from one too many tasty Tollhouses or succulent sandtarts. But I don’t think so. I think it’s something in us, some shared knowledge, desire, need, to feel closer to the ones we love, and even to the ones we don’t even know.
Perhaps we carry it from our earliest of days, when there were no explanations, no sciences to take away our fear of the early fading of the light, the killing frost, as we huddled around fires of warmth and protection; of life.
Perhaps we need to feel that fear from time to time to rekindle the fire of our own humanity. And we should be happy that no matter how smart we become, some tiny reptilian part of our over-wise noggins still retains that wonder as we look up at the darkening sky with its multitude of tiny lights and we feel small in the face of it, and also magnified; we feel a need for kinship, for sharing, for redemption.
Or perhaps it is just the eggnog.
Have a Merry Christmas, a Happy Hanukkah, a Blessed Yule. I hope someone holds you in their arms and shares their warmth, if even for a moment.
Love, Jane
Reality tv? Really?
I have a confession. I’m addicted to reality tv. It’s almost midnight, and here I sit, glued to the tv, watching a tiny puppy named Chanel poop on the floor. Isn’t that sick?! I rarely ever watch tv, but the few shows I do watch are evidently real glimpses into people’s lives. It’s sort of creepy if you think about it. The cameras follow these people everywhere. To work, to the bathroom and even in the boudoir. Eww! So why can’t I stop watching? Because I’m nosy! I want to know how the “other half” lives! Not just that, but these shows are funny! Some of the funniest moments happen when these people are just being candid. It makes me wonder what life would be like with cameras following me everywhere. My world is funny. It just is. So many funny things happen around me daily and I often wish I could have somehow documented it. But to have an entire film crew with me all the time? I shudder to think! While it would be great to have all the fun moments captured, they would also capture the bad and embarrassing moments, too. Not cool. So I think I’ll leave it to the “professionals”. And now I shall return to my program, where a 50ish year old British woman is gyrating on the lap of a Chippendale, or as she called him… a Chipmunk. Ha! See you next Thursday! 🙂
So! Here’s the story of our Nativity scene.
During the four Christmasses we spent in Bologna, Italy, we had the pleasure of visiting many churches during Advent to view their Nativity displays. Most scenes were very old, and some were as large as a room with many moving parts, lights, and special effects that had been added through the centuries. (The Naivity in the church of San Petronio has an marble angel carved my Michaelangelo.) The scenes contained many anachronistic pieces – Italian bagpipers from the hills (who still come into the towns to play in the streets over the Christmas season), figures representing characters from the Commedia del’Arte like Harlequin, all sorts of animals not found in Bethlehem…in short, they were a delight to visit each year. My children were very young, and I decided to start collecting pieces for our own Nativity scene. The individual pieces were very inexpensive, and during the four yearrs in Bologna I managed to assemble quite an impressive collection. Each year I set it up on our mantle, and each year I hid the Christ Child until Christmas morning, when he would appear in the manger. Then disaster struck! One Christmas we discovered that we had inadvertently thrown out the well worn box that contained our Nativity scene during a rare but intense binge of cleaning the cellar! I was quite upset, but we decided to begin assembling a Nativity scene all over again. And so, during the past twenty five years our Nativity has grown to something amazing! It fills our mantle and spills onto several levels. Barry made the most wonderful stable, and we have collected all the “traditional” participants – camels, wisemen, shepherd, Mary, Joseph, angels, donkey, etc. BUT we have also added a variety of other pieces, all given lovingly as gifts by friends and family. Among them are a blue hippopotamus from the New York MOMA, a Mexican boatman, several giraffes, Italian bagpipers, a Labarador retriever, American Revolutionary soldiers, and a handcarved English nanny that was mafde by a dear friend who from Wales who believed every baby should have an English nanny. She now stands proudly beside Mary. There is a tiny turtle and several cats, a llama, Clydesdale, and a black sheep carved in China. I have knitted a small bunting for Jesus, who always looks so cold. And He doesn’t appear until Christmas morning. Where does He stay until then? In our liquor cabinet! Also a tradition of many years. The first time I placed him there next to my favorite bottle of Scotch, it was because the liquor cabinet was very close to the fireplace. THen it became a tradition. Now every year my son calls to ask if I’ve put Jesus in the liquor cabinet. That’s an indication to him, I think, that all’s well with the world. I assure you there is no disrespect intended by that little hiding place. On Christmas morning Jesus is lifted into his manger, and from then until the Epiphany on 6 January the wise men get closer and closer to the stable. All is calm. All is well. Blessings abound!
Christmas Tree Survey
Yep, this week you get to give opinoins–about a subject that is near and dear to us all, our Christmas trees. Just finished decorating ours, and it is…well, beautiful. It smells piney and has some endearing imperfections, but it’s the real thing. There are many different thoughts on what makes a beautiful Christmas tree, and maybe some might not like that adjective. Perhaps it should be clever or funny or sporty. Well, let’s see where you weigh in.
1. Whatever your favorite type is (a Douglas fir, a Frasier fir, a spruce, a concolor), why do you choose it?
a. price (oh, yeah, they are all more expensive this year, having to do with a dought in Texas, they say, and I thought they were all grown in Lenhartsville)
b. size–does it have to dominate or just fit in
c. shape–are you a round and fully packed or a svelt and sleek tree lover?
d. layering of branches–must the ornaments hang vertically or can they look layed on
e. will it fit in the stand–or do you have to get a bucket of sand and ropes to fortify it
f. all of the above
2. When do you get and trim your tree?
a. Halloween, when the stores do theirs
b. Thanksgiving, between football games
c. early in December
d. when I’m finished marking papers
e. when I finally get around to it
f. Christmas eve, because Santa brings it
3. Lightin preference
a. tiny little white lights because they’re elegant
b. colored lights–the more colors the better
c. ones that chase each other around the tree
d. bubbling candles (remember those?)
e. whatever I found on my grandmother’s attic
f. the cheapest ones I could find at Ace Hardware
4. Ornaments–
a. traditional balls
b. I’ve got a theme tree
c. ones my children made–love those construction paper chains
d. ones I made in school–love those snowflakes and origami birds, but they’re getting a little yellow around the edges
e. the cheapest ones I could find at Ace Hardware
f. anything left after the cat knocked the tree down last year
5. What do you do with all of those little fuses and bulbs (and all of those little tags that say CAUTION and UL listed–what does that mean?)
a. throw them away
b. use them, of course, I haven’t had to replace lights in decades
c. put them in a desk drawer and now I have a collection of more than 1000 of them
d. glue them together to make little garlands for a miniatrure tree
e. what fuses and extra bulbs?
6. What goes on the top of your tree?
a. a star
b. an angel
c. a partidge in a pear tree
d. nothing–can’t reach it
7. Final touch?
a. garland
b. tinsel/rain/ice cicles
c. popcorn and cranberries
d. angelhair (remember that?)
e. it looks good the way it is
8. Who loves your tree the most?
a. the cat
b. the puppy–has eaten everything half way up
c. my mother (she loves everything I do–especially at Christmas)
d. my grandchildren
e. me
I hope you chose “e” for the last one. Enjoy it all!
Ellen
That’s What She Said – The Show!
It is Monday, so I get to relate some very exciting news.
It is official: Tune in to BCTV on Tuesday, January 31st to see we five ladies live on the small screen. Yes, we’re going live in just over a month!
And if you aren’t near a television have no fear, the show will be streamed live at BCTV.org. We’ll be international!
And if you miss it that evening…well, you are not out of luck! The show will be replayed on the station, and also archived on the site! I have no idea how these things happen, but trust me, they do. It is magic, and Martha, Christina, Ellen, Sheila, and I are excited to be a part of that magic!
So my dears, we’ll keep on blogging, you keep on reading, and before you know it, we’ll be popping into your living rooms, dens, and bedrooms! Electronically, of course.
Have a wonderful week, my dears!
Love, Jane
My apologies all around
I know I know… I didnt blog last week…let me explain myself and beg for your forgiveness. I work 3rd shift 11 at night to 930 in the am…so Im actually blogging at like 2 or 3 in am on fridays and scheduling it to post around noon that day…We were exceptionally busy at work and it just slipped my mind!! I am so very sorry!! Now that we have THAT out of the way….
I hope everyone has had a wonderful week!! Mine was not overly productive but it wasnt so horrible. 🙂 I spent alot of time last weekend and this week at Genesius working on the whole House Management thing….Its alot of work. But alas…I do love Genesius so I have signed my name and time in blood to them. I cant wait to get back ON the stage though. I havent been in a prodcution since January of this year …so almost and entire year ago. However there a few shows I will be audtioning for this coming season at Genesius.
Im going christmas shopping when im done with my shift this morning at 0930. I love shopping whether its for me of for someone else. Although what im not looking forward to his having to split my christmas shopping up between 3 paychecks which means I will still be christmas shopping on the 23rd…YUCK i hate crowds at christmas time as it ….so that should be an adventure..hopefully i dont get arrested :-/ lol
wish me luck!!!
Backstage ramblings
Y’all… I’m about to complain. I’m at Genesius, in the middle of a performance of The Sound of Music, and I’m FREEZING. I know it’s December, but I’m still so unready for this kind of weather. Brrrr!!
I’m knitting a blanket. One day I saw Christina knitting one and it looked like a lot of fun, so I left rehearsal, went to Michael’s and bought stuff to make a blanket. Yes, I actually left rehearsal! I know, I’m dreadful. But it was so worth it because I’m having a lot of fun knitting this. I can’t wait till it’s done!
Christina and I went to Malibooz for dinner tonight. I got the seafood fondue. SINFUL!!! So delicious and SO unhealthy. Tomorrow I start my diet. From now on, nothing but vodka! Ha! 😛
That’s enough out of me. I hope everyone has an amazing weekend. See you next Thursday! 🙂
Papers! I’ve got papers! Lots and lots…..!
Three classes left, and then my semester is finished. I’ve enjoyed it – great students – challenging classes – an inherited course I’d never taught before. I’m glad I finally decided that I wanted to be a teacher when I grew up. However, there’s a glitch! In the past, when the semester ended, I turned in my grades and was finished until late in January when the spring semester began. The course that I was teaching did not include a final. Aha! Change is good for the soul! I think! This semester’s classes include a lot of end-of-the term research papers, observations logs, unit plans, and a take home final. Drat! Bad planning on my part. Everything due this week! Except for the fact that I really enjoy reading my students’ work, this is an impediment to my holiday preparations that are always postponed until the day classes end. Then I just immerse myself in decorating the house, baking cookies, wrapping present, NOT eating the cookies I’ve baked, writing out greeting cards, NOT eating the cookies I’ve baked…but this year’s a bit different. The thought of all those papers and projects coming in this week was overwhelming at first, but I think I’ve got myself organized. All will be accomplished – and I WILL NOT eat any of those cookies I’m going to bake. Yesterday I unpacked our ecclectic nativity scene. It fills the mantle. I think I’ll blog about that next Wednesday. That is my favorite Christmas decoration. (the baby Jesus doesn’t appear in the creche until Christmas morning when I take him our of his hiding place in the liquor cabinet!!!) More about THAT next week. Meanwhile – hope you’re feeling better, Jane. Ellen, Christina, Sheila – hugs, love, and all good things to you all – and, of course, that includes you, too, Jane. I’m just not getting too close for the hug until you’re well. Can’t afford to get sick until I’ve graded all those danged papers! Ciao!