Time for Giving of Thanks

Hello, my dear little chipmunks!

I thought it would be nice, if, wholly, unoriginal, to use this week’s space giving thanks. Now I would like to think that, on a daily basis, I am a fairly thanks-giving woman. But even I am self-aware enough to know that days, weeks, well, to be truthful, sometimes even years, go by, wherein I haven’t though beyond my own personal realm. And so, the day of thanks and gluttony fast approaching…

First and foremost, I thank my mother. While not, by any means, a warm woman, she would have done anything to see me grow and thrive. She lives on in my heart, and also on a plaque in Poughkeepsie, New York.

Thanks to family, whether real, acquired, or extended. Family is not necessarily what you were born with, it is what you make, and I am grateful to have created the best family for which one could wish.

Thank you to loyal friends: What would this world be without you? The support and love, laughs and tears, shared with you…the value is immeasurable.

Also thanks to worthy foes, who in trying to tear down, only manage to build up. No mettle is truly tested and proved inviolable without strong opposition.

Thanks to whatever higher power one believes in, and if that is none, then to yourself. Creation is magic, whatever the source.

Thanks to the cosmetics industry, which has kept me looking relatively young, youthful, handsome, well into my later years. While it was a tiny emotional earthquake the day I realized that it was necessary to make the leap away from light-coverage foundation, I am thankful that full-coverage was there to catch me on the other side of that particular crevasse.

I am thankful for the Arts, and entertainment in all forms. My life would never have been possible, well, the life I wound up leading, at any rate, without the Arts. They helped me escape my humble beginnings in Poughkeepsie. Took me to places of which a young girl, and then older woman, could only dream! Alas, they were also the cause of my first, and lasting, brush with the disillusionment and rancor that love can bring. But I shan’t think of that at the moment; I’m happy!

Taking a side path for a moment…Speaking of entertainment, I, yes I, am a semi-fan of the television show The X-Factor; not a big fan, mind you, but I watch. If I may be allowed to exorcize some of the rancor that has come flashing back into my mind by merely alluding to my late husband above, and I hope, below: I do not at all like that fellow who hosts. He dampens every moment he is onscreen. I am eagerly awaiting the episode in which he will be voted off.

But I do love that little Chris Rene. He reminds me of a young Tom Waits, whom I adore. I remember sitting with him, Tom, not Chris, in a less than reputable boîte in, if memory serves, Oklahoma; what can one do, one takes jobs, and sustenance, wherever one may. I remember I lifted a glass to him and said, “Oh, Tom, there will never again be anyone like you!” To which he mumbled something in reply. But I was wrong: I predict that Mr. Rene will have a long career singing honestly of life in America. There is nothing better than a good storyteller…well, perhaps a well-made Manhattan.

One more step on this path of digression. I cannot wait for Hugo to be released; what a visually stunning treat to the eyes those trailers have been!

And now stepping trippingly back onto the main path. I am very thankful for this lovely group of women with whom I find myself in such close company. “In no particular order,” as that vapid man from the X-Factor would say: Ellen, Sheila, Christina, and Martha, a girl couldn’t ask for a better group with which to share time and bandwidth.

And finally: To life. No, it is not always easy, never predictable, and ofttimes somewhat frightening, but my goodness, what a wonderful ride it continues to be.

Be safe in your travels, be they down the path, across the country, or from room to room.

Thanks and Love to you, too,

Jane

Starbucks has stolen my soul..and wallet

Whhhhhhhyyyyyy…whhhyyyyy is Starbucks so expensive…and yet so darn addictive?! Its just not right or fair…and frankly it should be illegal!! To have such yummy delectable and attractive treats and make them so expensive.  I have been breaking my bank on these liquid dreams.  I have to tell you the Peppermint Mocha Latte..i’ts flipping christmas in a cup!!  I cant seem to say no to it!! I just keep spending spending spending…i’ve taken to buying 2 at a time..which is an easy $10.00 gone. So what im saying is if go there every day for a week thats $70.00 for coffee …for a week!!!  It’s ridiculous and I cant stop…My Name is Christina and I am Starbucks Addict. Is there a group for people like me???  Does anyone else have this problem????  If I dont get this under control everyone in my family will be getting one pair of socks that I purchased from a 6 pack at walmart for christmas…..because i spent ALL of my christmas money on Peppermint Mocha Latte’s. And really how how much does it cost them to make one of those babies?? Theres not way its 4.75 to make it they have to be making bank.  Its just mean to tempt people with these steaming hot lovelies and make them so unaffordable!  That is all. I will now step off my soap box. Thank you for listening.

*stars and kisses*

Christina

Where’s my hot chocolate?!

Happy Thursday everyone! Sorry so late. I was in the middle of a brawl with my cat. Anyone who has ever met my cat knows exactly what I’m talking about. He jumps, he chews, he knocks things over… what a menace! So we fight. A lot. But I wouldn’t have him any other way. I love my little Pumpkinhead. 🙂

While I was fighting with Rizzo, my friend/neighbor brought over the best pork chops I’ve ever tasted. I’m so fortunate that I live very close to two good friends that love to feed me. I rarely have to cook. It’s wonderful! Lucky me!

I got a few cortisone shots in my hands today. Owwwww! Fire!!! I have my ice packs on, so hopefully the burning stops soon. Stupid shots. >;/

Brrrr! When did it get so cold AGAIN?! I’m not ready for this AGAIN! Where’s my beautiful fall weather?! I wish pumpkin season could last forever. Sigh…

Well, that’s all for now. I have a house full of people, so I’ll sign off now. I hope everyone has a good week. See you next Thursday!

Philadelphia International Airport – for a “fun” time!

It’s finally here! The day our son and his girlfriend (whom we LOVE) arrive from CA for a short visit. The spaghetti sauce and meatballs have been made and are ready for dinner; the house has been tidied up; the flannel sheets are on the beds; my lesson plans for the rest of the week are made. Can hardly wait to give and get lots of hugs! Hoping Matt and Melissa’s PHL experience is a good one. Of all the airports I’ve been through, PHL remains the most …hmm…how can I put this in the most politically correct term?…the most unpredictable. Yes, that’s a good word! Whenever I depart or arrive in PHL, it seems I’m there at a time of serious construction! I’ve been rained on while walking through the jetway. I’ve been groped thoroughly when my two titanium hips set off bells and whistles at security. (I think many of the attendants were in line getting hamburgers when the “How to be friendly” class was being taught.) I’ve arrived at the busiest times when all the women’s toilets were closed for cleaning, and all the women on the arriving flights were in need of relief and not caring whether the toilets were clean or not! But the funniest experience I’ve had at PHL happened last year when I was traveling alone to CA. I’d entered security, the bells and whistles are going off as expected, and I was ready to give my standard response to the man standing guard. That morning he was a rather small, not-too-young man who looked rather bored as he leaned against the screening device that was making so much noise. “I have two titanium hips and an underwire bra, ” I instantly told him. And then, with not a moment’s pause, he looked at me and said, “Money well spent!” I laughed all through the subsequent pat-down and all the way to the gate. I hope the kids find something to laugh at as they wander through PHL this afternoon.

let’s design a new illness

Not that the world doesn’t have enough of them…new bacteria, viruses, and other nasties evolving and proliferating as we speak. But all the ones we have are just no fun. Well, they provide jobs for people who must combat them, and that is good, in these troubled economic times, but those of us who get them tend to be pretty miserable. I speak from experience since I’ve been sick for almost two weeks…had to cancel out on all the fun stuff and stay confined to the house, mostly to my room and bed. There are so many times that I would welcome some days with nothing to do but read and watch old movies, while drinking a cup-a-tea. But with this bug–bronchitis, so my doctor says, an aftermath of the snowstorm and being run down from lack of power, heat, water, good healthy food…and everyone, even my doctor, fell prey to it. I guess there’s comfort in being part of “everyone”, but not when you feel so miserable. No food, not even that cup-a-tea, tastes good. The proliferation of soggy tissues spilling out of my pockets and overflowing the waste baskets, and the constant hacking cough make me totally undesirable to be around. Even my loving husband tends to be in another room, away from the germs I’m spewing about, and I cannot blame him. My eyes burn, so I cannot read—and the old movies seem to get really old. I can’t nap–constant coughing prevents that. But the wonders of modern medicine should right this situation in three (count them) days. (Day two has not shown much progress yet!)
So I want to design an illness that does require those few days of bedrest, when food still tastes good (and someone serves it to you), you have a stack of good books to enjoy, you look good (with the aid of a little makeup), and people come to see you and you don’t talk about the miseries of illness but about happy things down the road. Napping is restorative, and so one day you get up feeling just dandy, renewed, reenergized, and well-read.
Come to think of it–I had one of those conditions once. It was then called “a difiicult pregnancy”. I was told to do absolutely nothing other than rest in bed and take some pills so that I would not lose that baby. I did, and it had a totally happy ending.
And the result of that pregnancy is coming for dinner tonight after having been out of town for two months…meaning I and my box of tissues had better get to the kitchen and start cooking. Think of the steam from the pots clearing the sinuses, easing the coughing… perhaps I feel better already.

Happy thoughts, Ellen

Late

Oh, my dears! What a day this has been!

I am sorry to be so late in posting. My aeroplane from Bulgaria was delayed, ah the travails of modern travel!

Yes, I hopped to Bulgaria for a quick respite from the daily grind. Jane was in need of her beloved town of Pomorie and its medicinal, healing spas. The people are lovely and the mud is heaven! A special “Thank You!” goes out to Benesj, my lovely young man with a trowel. His muddy hands are magic! Then, I had to pop down to Burgas to do a little shopping. And then, home I came.

What do I find upon my return? Scandal and stupidity! Truth be told, and I try to always be truthful, when I left the States, the Double S’s were omnipresent anyway. They seem so difficult to avoid these days. While I always expect to find gold when turning over rocks, I seem lately to find only…well, unpleasant creatures. ‘Tis a sign of the times, I suppose, and one that will undoubtedly circle ’round again, as the times always do.

I had a lovely time voting last week. (Thank you, ladies, for reminding me.) It was the last thing I did before flying out. I returned to find some I voted for had been elected, and some had not. All-in-all, I was not unhappy. I suppose I would have liked to see what Mr. McHale would have done with Reading, being a relative newcomer; not part of the existing, grinding, political machine, as it were. But “Hail” to Mr. Spencer, and God be with you as you take the wheel of this largish and ungainly ship.

And now, ‘ere this post becomes even later than it is already, I shall sign off. As my dear late friend, Mr. Welk, used to say, “Until next week, keep a song in your heart!”

Love, Jane

 

 

What Ever Happened to Halloween??

I am a self-admitted Halloweener.  As Thanksgiving quickly approaches ( or technically vanishes into the shadow that is already being thrown by Christmas ) I wonder to myself where did my Halloween even go this year??  You see normally come Halloween time I have a full schedule of Haunted Houses, Events, Parties, Movies, Ghost Hunting…etc all planned for the season. This season was no different my calendar was planned , jam packed even. Somehow it all got away. No I was’nt overly busy…or to broke to make the wayyy over priced admissions to local haunted events, I just for some reason didn’t go. I was perfectly contecn at home on my couch with my puppies and boyfriend watching scary movies. So maybe the question isn’t what happened to Halloween, but what happened to me??? Was I lazy?  Is the ripe old age of 31 taking it’s toll?? I’m not really sure what it was but for some reason I’m totally ok with it…and well I have a big secret…I mean a BIG secret…seriously…you can’t tell anyone…but for some reason I am really looking forward to Christmas this year..I know it’s shocking.  I guess things are changing, times are changing, I’m changing…and apparently I’m ok with it….although i still have a funny feeling on Christmas Eve when everyones watching Miracle on 24th Street…I’ll still be watching The Nightmare Before Christmas 😉

Stars & Kisses,

Christina

I got the rainy day blues

Oh hey Thursday! I’ve been waiting ALL WEEK for you! It’s been quite an eventful week for me. My dear friend Matthew from Oregon has been in town and I couldn’t be happier. Rizzo and I missed him terribly! It’s been awesome getting to spend so much time with him again. It’s like he never left! I’ll be so sad when it’s time for him to go back home, but for now, I’ll just enjoy the time that’s left. 🙂

If you’re looking for something fun to do this weekend, go see The House of Yes at Reading Community Players, which opens this Friday. My friend Ray Rhoads is the director and I also have several friends in the cast. It’s sure to be a hit, but please leave the kiddies at home for this one. It’s a little twisted! I’m going on Saturday night, so I hope to see lots of faces in the audience. Support local theatre!!

On another note, I just started drinking shots of wheatgrass juice in the morning. Not pleasant, but they say it’s beneficial, so I’ll keep choking it down. I’m skeptical, but optimistic. We shall see!

I’ve been pretty quiet this week, so I have a ton to say. I could seriously go on and on, but I’ll end it here. I hope everyone is having as good of a week as I am. Adieu for now!! <3

Twenty-two percent?! REALLY???

Just read that only 22 percent of the registerd voters in Berks County actually voted in yesterday’s election. Sad! I’m from a long line of women voters, beginning with my greatgrandmother, Martha, who was a suffragette. My grandmother, Bessie, hobbled to the polls on two canes just before she died, and my mother, Margaret, submitted absentee ballots from her assisted living residence. I’ve voted in five states and cast absentee ballots from Italy. So in my family, women vote! I’m still an idealist who believes one vote can make a difference. The 78 percent who didn’t vote yesterday certainly could have made a significant difference.
Not a good news morning. As a Penn Stater, I bleed blue and white. I thought I was too old and wise to have a hero toppled. Guess there’s no limit to being disillusioned.
But on a much brighter note – my son and his girlfriend are coming from California next week for a visit. We’re VERY excited!!!! I’m going to let all my thoughts focus on that instead of the first two subjects.

Election day thoughts

Voting…it’s our privilege and responsibility. I’m about to go out and perform this civic duty in a few minutes, something I’ve done “religiously” for 49 years. In what is an off-year election (no national or state executives or legislators on the ballot) there are nevertheless important choices to be made throughout Berks County, particularly in the city of Reading. Weather cannot be blamed for a poor turnout on a November day when the temps will get into the 60s and with no rain, sleet, hail–or snow–in the forecast. I encourage, no, entreat, all to do so. The only place an opinion COUNTS is on a ballot. And the only way a democracy can work is if the officials feel they are held accountable by their electorate.
My voting record has had reliability, although my choices have sometimes been untypical. I’ve voted for 8 of the 9 governors of Pennsylvania in the last 49 years, but only 4 of the 12 leaders of our nation. I voted for the Independent candidate John B. Anderson for president in 1980 and still wish that sensible, intelligent man were a voice in Washington. I, and 13 others, wrote in Al Boscov in ’84, believing our native son could have cut through much political, bureaucratic folderol and produced much-needed results for the nation. This time the workers at my polling place may not be delighted to see me coming. Last year I managed to gum up both voting machines in my attempt to write in the name of Arlen Specter, a man of independence whom I felt had served his constituents well, although neither party wanted him as their candidate. There was a frustrated line of voters waiting as they struggled to get the write-in boxes to work. The judge of elections suggested that I just choose one of the candidates on the ballot. Sorry, this was my day to have my say. Make today your day, too.